Sometimes they show up dressed in the form of a lie your 3 year old self begins believing as a result of you witnessing the strongest person you know shattered from the pain of the heartache they felt. Sometimes they show up in the form of childhood illness and surgeries and trauma on your little body. Sometimes they show up in the form of the trauma from being sexually abused by a family member and you being punished for it by another family member. Sometimes they show up in the form of a spouse that cheats over and over again, even while you are pregnant. Sometimes they show up in…